I am a single mother with a 3 year old daughter and my child’s father is not responsible for her. Recently, I started dating another guy who loves both my daughter and I. He promised to marry me, but that cannot hold now because of financial constraints. The issue now is that he wants to have s*x with me, I am afraid to get pregnant outside wedlock again. Should I give in to him?
MJ
I think there is no point to rushing into s*x with this new guy. He claimed he loves you and wants to get married to you, let him wait till you guys are married. Talk is cheap, what if he impregnates you and ends up leaving you all alone, just like the first guy? I think you should learn from your first experience and take the right decision. A guy would promise you heaven and earth, just to get you laid, and after they have tastes of you, they are gone with the wind. So dear, there is no point having s*x with him, let him understand that you guys would have to delay s*x till he gets married to you. If he stays, fine! If he walks away because of this decision, then he is not the right one for you.
Wish you well,
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